Keepers of the Children
Native American Wisdom and Parenting
By Laura M. Ramirez

   In an exquisite blend of Native American ideals, child development and human psychology, Keepers of the Children: Native American Wisdom and Parenting presents a child-rearing guide based on balance and mutual respect.

     Among other suggestions, author Laura M. Ramirez encourages parents to look toward the future and picture your child as a joyful, fulfilled adult.

      What gifts does your child possess? Through observation and exploration parents can help their child discover his unique talents and strengths. Once realized, parents can encourage their child to develop his talents so he may find happiness and become an asset to his community.

    What ethics do you hope your child embraces? Involve your child in the creation of a code that lists your family's values. Encourage each other to demonstrate these principles daily and discuss others who behave differently.

    The author also reminds parents that discipline should empower a child to make better decisions rather than inhibit the child's spirit. She does not advocate allowing a child free rein; she clarifies the difference between love of power and the power of love. She also discourages using a reward system to garner compliance because external incentives extinguish internal motivation.

     Keepers of the Children: Native American Wisdom and Parenting is a compassionate, common sense guide to one of the hardest yet noblest vocations known. Mrs. Ramirez supports her opinions with both Erik Erikson's model of child development (Life Cycles) and native stories like "Spirit Boy and the Gift of Turquoise".

      Though the author's guidelines include many excellent suggestions, my favorite has to be adopting a spiritual name. My children and I considered the specific traits of different species, and together we decided which animal and adjective best fit their unique gifts. I will forever value the insight I gained. I believe all readers will enjoy Ms. Ramirez's unique gifts as much as I have. This is one guide wise parents won't pass by.