Growing Up Too Fast
The Rimm Report on the Secret World of America's Middle Schoolers.
by Sylvia Rimm, PhD
As a children's writer and a parent, I'm always interested in studies focused on children
today, so I was delighted to be able to read Growing Up Too Fast. In this book,
Dr. Sylvia Rimm shares the results of a lengthy questionnaire she distributed to over
5000 middle school kids. She also talked to over 300 kids in focus groups. Her goal?
To see how this tween age of childhood has changed over the years. Not surprisingly,
today's middle schooler is in much more contact with sexually related material than we
were as children - with today's media full of sexual messages. According to the answers
she got from these kids, this contact with sexual content is making middle schoolers
from rocky homes get involved with sex at much younger ages. She also found similar
results in regard to drugs. However, kids in solid homes with attentive parents are more
aware of sex and drugs than in the past but not particularly more inclined to partake
- so the results of her report aren't quite as scary as they look at first blush. Clearly,
good parenting is more important than ever. And the last section of the book gives some
excellent parenting tips developed from Dr. Rimm's nearly 30 years as director of a family
achievement clinic. I found the book fascinating but I suspect many readers may be a bit
bogged down by the lengthy attention she gives to the questionnaire results. Still, it's
well worthwhile to stick with the book to the end. Some of her tips on dealing with
competition and work ethic are definitely welcome tools in my parenting kit. |
The Book |
Rodale |
September 2005 |
Hardcover |
1579547095 |
Nonfiction (adults) |
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The Reviewer |
Jan Fields |
Reviewed 2005 |
NOTE: Reviewer Jan
Fields is the editor of Kid Magazine Writers emagazine and has written dozens of
stories and articles for the children's magazine market. |
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