It's Called A Breakup Because It's Broken
The Smart Girl's Break-up Buddy
by Greg Behrendt and Amiira Ruotola-Behrendt
Your soulmate's declaration that you're not the one pulverizes your heart and dissolves
your dreams.You flounder in the painful world of why, what if, and what now. In It's
Called A Breakup Because It's Broken, authors Greg Behrendt and Amiira Ruotola-Behrendt
help you heal that seemingly endless pain and start your new and happier life.
Their advice divides the pain and healing into two parts: The Breakup and The Breakover.
Readers' polls and letters seem to cover the range of emotions after the breakup. Do you
continually call him because after all, he's your best friend? Do you plan accidental
meetings knowing that he'll regret leaving you when he sees how hot you look? While the
subject, the pain of rejection, is serious, Behrendt and Ruotola-Behrendt pepper their
advice with lots of humor. The reasons not to break into his email, his phone messages,
or his house will protect you from further heartache. "Dear Greg" letters share feelings
of heartache, depression, overeating, and loneliness. "Psycho Confessionals" feature the
bizarre behaviors and thoughts of the newly heartbroken. Behrendt and Ruotola-Behrendt
top advice with "The Best Worst News" and "Awesome Thoughts". The Breakover journey takes
you through several stages. The book asks for some interaction such as taking care of yourself,
finding a break-up buddy, starting a journal, and the "He-Tox".
Married authors, Behrendt and Ruotola-Behrendt, share their personal lows and highs
with open hilarity. Their humor made me laugh out loud. It's Called A Break-Up Because
It's Broken aims advice toward women with a bonus chapter for advice to men. It minimally
touches on the problems with break-ups or divorces with children. I like that the book
directs readers to professional help if depression, obsession, or another emotion takes
center stage. I recommend this humorous book to young and hip women who need a straight-shooting
guide to repair their heart. |
The Book |
Broadway Books |
September 2005 |
Hardcover |
0-7679-2185-2 |
Non-Fiction, Self-Help, Relationship |
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Excerpt |
NOTE: Minor Language |
The Reviewer |
Jennifer Akers |
Reviewed 2005 |
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