Countless women are causing undue stress to themselves by trying to make themselves perfect for their next potential relationship. Through the thought provoking words contained in It's Not You, It's Him: The Zero-Tolerance Approach to Dating, I discovered that my actions are not what caused a meaningful relationship to fizzle. In fact, after reading Dr. Witkin's advice, I discovered it wasn't my fault but the lack of commitment on the part of my mate. This is just one of the many solutions that made me stop and think back to other past dates and to look at them in a new light. I'm fully convinced that it will speak to other women who find themselves in similar situations. The words of wisdom have given me a new appreciation for myself and how I am worthy of someone who can appreciate my many talents.

This book is a definite pick-me-up when you find yourself suffering with a broken heart. It would be an ideal present for someone who is recently divorced or has broken up with someone they thought was 'the one'. This book will set you back on your feet and have you polishing up those ruby slippers for a hot night on the town. It will give you the strength and determination to find someone who is worthy of your true affection.