By defining each promise and giving practical examples of how each can be achieved, the author walks couples through some of the hardest lessons that some couples never learn. Most compelling is the author’s statement on the difference between male and female perspectives on relationship priorities. While men tend to place higher value on sexual fulfillment, women tend to place affection at the top of the list. Understanding how this can affect relationship dynamics can go a long way towards bridging communication gaps that often result in arguments and animosity.

The book contains candid discussion about the issues faced by young couples and a myriad of compatibility checklists that can be used by couples to help them make the right decisions. I Promise You is a valuable collection of observations, facts, and diagnostic tools every young couple should include in their discussions about taking the steps toward marriage.